It is normal to reach a certain age in life and no longer desire your partner like you once did before...
Maybe you've become caught up in your social and work commitments, or maybe you just don't enjoy sexual intercourse anymore, who knows.
I personally love sex, I think about sex each moment of every day. When my fellow colleague walks by my office door, I can't help but picture him doing me hard and rough (don't mention that to him though).
I consider myself lucky to have such a strong sexual appetite and constantly explore ways to better the sexual experience for both me and my partner.
Below I've compiled a list of sex games guaranteed to reignite the flame that you and your lover once had
Remember, sex should always be fun... ALWAYS!
THE WINE SPRITZER
Preparation:
1. Put on a t-shirt. (preferably white)
2. Have him seated in full frontal view of you.
3. Fill a spray bottle with an alcoholic beverage of your choice.
4. Spray your boobs, and let him watch.
5. Offer him a taste.
6. Then turn the action onto him.
7. Spray his chest and lick it as you go along.
8. Give him a alcoholic flavoured blow job.
SLIPPERY SLIDE
Preparation:
1. Cover your bed with a camping tarp to protect your bedding from oil related damages.
2. Pour essential oil of your choice on to the camping tarp.
3. Take a hot shower with your partner to really get things wet .
4. Instead of drying yourself with a towel, use oils to caress one another.
5. Once you are oiled and ready for a steamy love making session, take things into the bed where the slippery slide shall be waiting.
6. Enjoy!
READ: Why sex helps men feel a little closer to heaven
TRUTH OR DARE
Partaking in a game of truth and dare discloses facts about your partner you might not have previously known making this the ideal communicating tool.
At times it might be challenging to discuss sex related matters and changing the setting and environment could allow one to feel more comfortable and reluctant to share vulnerable details about themselves that they would normally keep to themselves.
Below are examples of 5 Truths
1. Would you be open to the idea of anal sex?
2. Would you be comfortable with sharing your partner with another person?
3. How many sexual partners have you previously had?
4. Are you comfortable with touching yourself?
5. Have you ever faked an orgasm while you were intimate with me?
Below are examples of 5 Dares
1. I dare you to strip in front of me.
2. I dare you to make yourself orgasm while I watch.
3. I dare you to have sex with me in a public space. (maybe in the car on the mountain top - after sunset of course)
4. I dare you to give me a rim job. (please pay close attention to your personal hygiene if you're going down this road)
5. I dare you to allow me to take you from behind.
Note: It is important to keep in mind that this game works both ways.
Right enough you'll see your partner in a different light by analysing the answers given. However you could learn all there is to know about your partner by paying close attention to the type of questions that they ask.
This will provide you with plenty of insight as to what you and your partner could possibly do to enhance the sexual experience, you could shine light on areas you need to focus on more - example foreplay; and more importantly identify what you've both been doing right.
Thus, ultimately allowing you to explore one another more intimately...
ADULT TWISTER
Preparation:
1. Choose a spacious, flat area to unfold the mat and spread it out.
2. Light candles to set the mood. (low lighting is preferred)
3. Get naked because you and your partner need to be comfortable when you start to flex and stretch.
4. Caress one another with oil - touching one another's naughty-bits will really get the mood going.
5. Step onto the mat and position yourselves on either end.
6. Spin the needle… and let the fun begin!